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Tiger Tiger Tiger, you sleazy little man-whore. There I said what millions of women across America are thinking today.
After hearing that voicemail he left one of his mistresses, I hope the rumors are true that his wife kicked his ass and bloodied his lip.
Now we hear a lot about invasions of privacy and is it right to snoop or look. Well, in this case if she hadn't looked at his cell phone he would still be arrogantly and happily leading a double life, secretly making a mockery out of their relationship, wouldn't he?
So here is the question - If a man or woman you are intimately involved with is acting shifty, shady, or demonstrating some other sketchy kind of behavior that gives you cause for concern, do you look at their personal belongings or don't you?
Especially knowing just how it easy it is nowadays with all the various means of technology one has at their disposal, a virtual treasure trail of cookies and breadcrumbs to follow the telltale signs: Face Book, MySpace, email accounts, cell phones, text messages, caller id....heck there is even a tracking device one could plant on their vehicle.... In fact I think there's even an app for that.
It's not like the days of old when a partner could claim he was working late or drank too much and had to stay out with the guys, lost his cell phone, missed his flight, bla,bla, bla. Cheaters and liars now have to be clever enough to outsmart technology and let's face it if they are dumb enough to cheat in the first place then clearly most of them are not.
My take is that under normal healthy relationship circumstances when you completely trust the person you're with and they have never given you a reason to question or suspect their behavior then out of trust and respect it's a line you simply do not cross.
HOWEVER if something just doesn't seem quite right and all the pieces aren't adding up, your gut is screaming foul play then I believe you have every right to use whatever means are at your disposal to find out WTF is going on. Absolutely. Screw invasion of privacy, if this person is not going to be honest with you than what about invasion of your life because you wouldn't want to be with a sleazy little man-whore in the first place?
Tiger's wife is really hot too. What an idiot.
Casey commented December 2, 2009 10:51 AM
OMG my ex was the BIGGEST man-whore of them all!!! And yes I did snoop in his phone and called him out on his dirty ways!!! He was SO good at lying and sneaking around that if I had not looked, I may have never known! After this Tiger Woods incident, I am seriously losing faith in ALL men and contemplating becoming a femi-nazi!!! I am absolutely disgusted! What a freaking idiot! YES his wife is hot. He has a lot of GREAT things going for him! Great career, family, everything! What? Was he just BORED of everything being so nice and normal and great?!? I wish she had beaten him up even more! Hahaha
Thanks Lori...
Jen commented December 2, 2009 2:21 PM
He us a total man whore and should be ashamed to behave this way as a role model for young boys
emily the biker pug commented December 2, 2009 4:32 PM
Lori this kind of proves my point about your last post.
I so far am the only one to leave a comment and to me that was important stuff the future of our families and country deprnds on who we put in office but no other comments??
OK the tiger Woods stuff who gives a flying F.. he is a nobody a nothing to me.
On cheating... I would never cheat on my wife (or girlfriend if that were the case). I have never cheated on anyone but I have had the unpleasant situation happen to me. I was married to a great person BUT she was a whore.
To me it is a matter of respect, if you want another let me know then I can decide on my next move. Especially today with the terrible diseases it would be a total slap in the face to my wife if I were to be intimate with another woman and then to come home and use those same genitals to enter her body is absolutly discusting, an unforgivable break in trust and leaves an unbearable hurt to that person.
It is not just cheating it is just a low blow .
It is too bad sex scews up people especially men, I mean we just get total brain freeze. But that is not a valid excuse no matter what.
If you are not happy move on.
And yes put me in the snoop if you need too category.
Sorry to have been so long winded and serious.
Lex commented December 2, 2009 6:06 PM
The voice mail being available for everyone to hear kind of creeps me out. I dunno. I am surprise that Tiger is man whore and i kind of hope it was his wife who kicked his ass.
I have gone through my husband's phone before and confronted him on something i had found. Thankfully nothing had happened and it was one sided (on her part). But what kind of girl happily goes off with a married man? Especially one with kids???
But i would go through his stuff in a 2nd if i thought i had it.
Lori commented December 2, 2009 6:16 PM
Yea, man whores suck! Casey, glad you got rid of yours - he was just dead weight slowing you down!
Jen you are 100% right about the role model thing. This is why so many men cheat and lie, because they learn it from the male figures in their life who they look up to..
ETBP - I hear you, I find it sad that more people are talking about Tiger's Wood today than the 30,000 troops that Obama is deploying to war. Insane.
Good for you Lex!
What a crazy world we live in.
emily the biker pug commented December 2, 2009 9:21 PM
Lori I hope she did whop his ass with that club.
Reminds me of a story of my grandparents. My grandfather had 4 girls and he was cating around so one day grandma whaled on him with one of those cast iron fryin pans and told him to make a choice, buckle down or hit the road. They stayed together into their 90"s
Sometimes violence applied in the proper amount and at the right time is a good thing.
Kicker commented December 4, 2009 1:56 AM
Hi,
I have already seen it somethere...
Kicker
macguy commented December 7, 2009 10:40 PM
I wouldn't cheat on my wife...
that said
the two other woman tiger was allegedly seeing they must off ummm had some talent. cause his wife is nice...